Hey JessieH, Here are my tips: Get measured professionally first and foremost, dont try to do your measurements yourself. Shades of pale has GREAT communication, they were my backup to Jasmines, Jasmines email me constantly with questions to make sure they are creating my dress to my liking and when they can't do things according to the picture they let me know. Shades of Pale was great to work with too, and the fact that they have a FB page with their ACTUAL work is a plus !!! Make sure you know exaclty how you want your dress to look and communicate it clearly!!! I think you need to make a decision soon as they are on vacation in China for two weeks for the holidays in February so no work will be done during this time. I ordered my dress in October and it won't be shipped out until next week, so allow yourself time for the Chinese holiday and time for any alterations that will need to be done.