We did fun colors AND matched!!! We didnt look cheesy at all, its all in the way you do it. Make sure you bring a few outfit changes, we did three outfit changes, here are a few of my faves! Hope they give you some ideas! Also,cute props help, i know etsy sells mini chalkboards where you can put messages on, those would be cute. Our props were our hats...I think they added a nice touch to our Save the Dates