I had my bridal shower 2 weeks ago and it was amazing!! I got to celebrate with all my friends and family some who cant make the trip to Mexico (my fiancee's grandma and aunts) and they were so excited to be able to share this moment with us. If your mom or bridal party offer just accept it! It really was so awesome, I am still smiling 2 weeks later. Not gonna lie having so much attention and pple wanting to do such nice things for you can be overwhelming. Its a weird feeling because you know the sacrifices most are making to go to your DW but at the end of the day they want to do this for you and love you! so enjoy!!!