Hello, I'm new to this site and am getting married on December 2, 2011 at 3pm. We've opted for the Seaside Serenade theme. We've had our first session with Renee Phillips and are now going over all of the options and add-ons with the "private dinner/reception" and things seem very pricey. Hoping you can help me... I'm a little confused as to what is the difference between the 30 minute reception after the ceremony is, you mentioned you had your first dance then. My understanding of a couple's first dance is usually at a reception after dinner on a big dance floor. Does Beaches do the reception before dinner and this is where you have to have your first dance? Also, you said that you had gone to dinner at the resort restaurant, was this for your entire wedding party or just you and the groom. I've been trying to understand if the only option for dinner is to have a "private dinner" where you have to pay additional $ for the meals and tables or if the restaurants can be reserved for the entire party as it is already an all inclusive resort and we'd like to keep it as casual can be and spending less money would help.