We are going to stay in separate rooms the night before, I think FI will just stay with his Best Man (and brother). There is only one thing that he has been very adamant about and that was no "first look" or picture before the actual wedding. He wants the first time he sees me to be when I am walking down the aisle and I think that its really sweet. For that reason we'll stay apart. We too have lived together for over 4 years so we aren't exactly traditional but this will be our nod to tradition. The morning of I believe he is going to go golf with his GM and some friends so that will be easy for us not to see each other!