FI has left everything up to me for the most part (I am a bit of a control freak lol) but is always there when I need him which has been great. He provides his opinion or assistance and that has been great! He helped in "the sweat shop" as he called it, ie our invitation assembly line which was huge, he did all the annoying things (corner rounder) that I didn't want to do. I never think he is listening but the other day we found out half his family (aunts and uncles) have decided to book earlier and fly out before us FI said "What about their OOT bag, when will they get it?" Hearing FI say OOT bag made me laugh so hard and I realized he really has been listening ALL this time!!!!!! Bride2012, do you think he left it all to you because he just wants you to be happy? Do you want him more involved?!