hey: what colours are you going with? what ideas do you have for the guys...do you want linen or linen look or something more traditional? as far as the OOT bags, we started ours, even though i dont have an exact number,,,i just started getting the stuff i know will go fast like the bags i ended up ordering as many bags as invites i sent out..worse comes to worse, i can turn around and sell them on here if i have to many lol when you do start, let me know ive got some great sites to save you money. our wedding planning is going really good, i just need to get this move back to london ontario done, so i can start to actually do my DIY stuff.... although ive done alot,and its all done(so i think unless I add more lol) i have nothing to show for it cause its all in my computer lol nothing printed yet. i just have to get on our music and the flowers, and then i have to buy my table runners and paper lanterns. wow i still have a ton of stuff to do lol lol What you could always do is start on all your DIY stuff IE: templates for OOT bags, monograms, chapstick labels etc if your doing that stuff... this way your still doing wedding planning lol