Hi RyGuysBride, I am sorry to hear that you are having difficulties finding the one. I went to about 10 stores searching for the dress and felt the same way. I would like one, take pictures of it but at home I just didn't like something about it. Actually, taking pictures of the dresses (if they allow you) is really helpful to decide. I finally figured out what I liked (the mermaid shape) so I started looking online for mermaid styles. Then I went back and tried out a few mermaid styles and they looked really good and I fell in love with ruffles. I couldn't find anything that I liked in the stores so I ordered mine online. The mermaid style looked really good and I liked it so I was comfortable ordering online. There are so many more choices online. I really hope I will like my dress when it's here. Good luck!