Okay, so I am WAAAY behind you both...the only things I've seen from the resort are the 3 different packages (blue affair, sand extraveganza, ocean romance). I haven't seen anything re: minister, ceremony script, decoration package, wedding extras, etc. Are both working directly with the hotel or with a travel agent? Otherwise, yes, I'm doing OOT bags (haven't bought anything yet, just looking at prices, etc), my dress, my bridesmaids dresses (scored from target.com for less than $40 each! woot!). Sooo glad to have people to chat with about all of this