akamikey11....yeah, i'm going that route..i figure if i mail it out at least 4-6 weeks in advance of the travel date, i can choose the most cost-efficient means of mailing AND get everything out to folks to they can get excited about the trip AND have the OOT stuff act as an 'indicator' of what to expect from our big day! plus i tend to overpack so i can't even imagine what i'd do if i had to pack ALL of the OOT stuff along with two weeks worth of clothes AND a wedding dress AND a slew of shoes AND makeup AND...well, you get the picture. R~