Wow, it sounds like babies are preventing you from deciding on who's in the wedding. But babies are fun too though. Gd luck figuring it all out :-) Yeah I have been able to decide on my bridesmaids but it was hard bc I didn't want to hurt anyone's feeling. Thankfully they all took it well....atleast as far as I know ;-) But my FI only has a best man so far. This is because his best man is the only one he for sure knows will be able to come, the others its kind of a wait and see who actually books! I hope my ladies don't fight about the dress or anything like that! I know they don't love fushia but its not about them...its about what colors I like :-)