my two sisters automatically assumed they were bridesmaids but i also have two very good friends and only intended on having 3 bridesmaids at the most so i had my sisters out of 'Etiquette' and couldnt chose between my two girlfriends so i ended up having hubby to be's sister as my third which i'm quite happy with as i feel it incorporates the two families.
thanks guys - im loving this site, so many ideas to take in at the moment my head is spinning!! Spose - thank you, i love spain especially that area and i'm currently learning spanish so getting very excited!!