Was this one directed at me? We have been getting constant feedback from our friends and family, and we have a pretty good idea who will and will not be coming. We know, for example, that, barring some tragedy, his parents will be there. We also have a pretty good idea of some friends who say "count us in!" but we would put money on them not coming when it comes down to it. The only thing is, we will be going with a fairly small group, and we are not sure about some VIPs. We don't know about my brothers or parents (again, we would bet they are, but they hate planning things in advance). Also, my bm is now trying to get pregnant, so, though she swears we will be there, we can guess she will not be (sucks, but understandable). So, though we do not have it written in stone, I guess this was my long ranty way of saying that we are guessing, but we think we have a fairly decent idea.