I wasn't going to do programs, because like you, it was so hard to coordinate with my WC. she did end up sending my a program that has been used in the past, and it looked like the ceremony was fully customizable, so I went for it, wrote our entire ceremony (well cut and paste from this site!). I ordered Postcards from Vistaprint and am going to make them into a fan! This was my project for this weekend, but FI Bach party is this weekend and I am taking the opportunity to spend some time with my Ladies tonight and hair trial/boudoir session tomorrow! Wish me luck!