Wow. I wish I had seen this earlier, I thought I was the only one!!! We had decided about a month ago that late August would work for us the best and just got engaged a week and a half ago (with less than 5 months until the wedding). I was planning the wedding, but so worried to go dress shopping before engagement. Plus I wasn't supposed to tell anyone! I made my needs known to him (as long of an engagement as possible, a nice proposal) and set him up with a friend to help him prepare for the proposal. And finally he proposed! As for Diamond Nexus, we couldn't afford a real diamond right now, we're just in that crunch and I don't really care all that much about the chemical makeup. No one can tell it's not real and it looks great! We're planning on replacing it with a real diamond in a few years when we have the money.