Congrats Lydia, Just remember the most important thing is to make it fun and memorable - not perfect. Don't strive for perfect, because there will be something that won't go right. When that happens, laugh about it and move on. We got married on the beach here without a planner, but we did have a good friend who knew the best florist, pastry chef, etc. You made the right move in hiring a planner who makes you comfortable. Relax and enjoy the process. Good luck, Michael