Hello Naida, Sorry to hear that the North American media has made your family think that Mexico is not safe. Did you know that the Riviera Maya, which is in the state of Quintana Roo, had a lower crime rate than Wichita, Kansas in 2011? The problems in Mexico, while real, are concentrated around the borders and a few West Coast states, more than a 1,000 miles from here. We have lived and worked here for more than two years without incident. Take a look at this post, it might help you decide which resort to choose in the Riviera Maya. http://www.mandjphoto.com/2012/03/tips-for-getting-married-in-the-riviera-maya/ Good luck, M&J