Hello!!! We have my wedding band, but we still have to get my sweeties. I still haven't decided if I'm going to do OOT bags or just the favors. I was on a website ( weddingthings.com) and found some gel candles with shells in them. They come in a clear box with a thank you card attached, really cute. And we both still have to renew our passports and get our two boys a passport. I just feel like I'm forgetting something I think once my deposit day comes and I know how many people are for sure coming, then I can finish off the favors and send in my wedding info forms to the resort, then I will probably feel better