You're not alone! We have had some family issues as well. My Fiances father is not flying down because he refuses to fly, we offered to pay the extra for the sky wedding (even though we can't afford it) so that he could watch the live web cam. He told us not to bother, that he probably wouldn't watch it anyway. There have been other minor spats with people, to the point that I was so stressed out, told everyone that we sent invites out to that it was cancelled until further notice (even though it wasn't cancelled). Now we are just providing anyone who asks us about it with the info they need to book. We have fewer guests coming as a result but this is the wedding we want and have been looking forward to, we're not going to change things because of others. Surround yourself with the positive, that's what I have been doing So far it seems to be working.