Hello ladies. I have been reading this site for a few months now (got engaged October 2010). I think I might have poked my eye out by now if it wasn't for this site!! So my FI and I are having difficulty picking our place, date and resort. We want to get married in April 2012 but my FI's #1 priority is picking a location/destination that is affordable for our guests (about 40 "said" they will go). We decided that $1500-$1600pp, incl taxes, is what we are thinking. Does anyone else have this as a priority? The prices we are getting back are much higher. Also, has anyone sent out STD without having a resort/destination picked? Thanks for the help...I'm going so crazy I could just elope...