My brother got married two years ago in Walt Disney World.. Our whole family is from out of town... New Hampshire, so everybody had to travel.... My FI and I ended up in total spending about $3000.00 on accommodations, park tickets, and airfare to and from Florida. I was in the wedding and paid for my own dress, chipped in for her bridal shower and we all pitched in for a "stag and doe" type party!! When your friends accepted the invitation to be your bridesmaid they had the chance to respectfully decline. I was fully aware of the expenses that I would have to pay for and more or less we did the parties because we wanted to not because it was expected of us. Your wedding should be fun to plan let your girls worry about all of the parties!! I am giving my girls two years to prepare everything, giving everyone enough time to save some money up and not have to rush!! haha and my maid of honor is already taking things away from me I was informed the other day I can't make tank tops for anyone!!! She's already got it covered!! Haha and she is already planning a bachelorette party for 2013 hahaha!! Got to love your best friends!! I hope this helps but it looks like my outlook is a bit different from everyone elses!!