I totally understand how you feel. Since the day i mentioned Destination Wedding, it like i killed my neighbour`s cat. every nite i prime myself for a phone call discouraging us from have a DW. But at the end of the day isn`t this suppose to be about us. Besides everyone gets to enjoy a vacation, as I said they`re not the only one spending the money we are still spending money to Have the dinners and everything. Just the other day i had to get snipping and told someone even if there`s only FI and I we are having a destination wedding. and we not changing it, and I feel really great about my decision.