I think smore's are a fab idea. we gave away 2 flavours of gourmet marshmallows. but Lua, i don't think it's bad that you're not giving anything away you are putting on the party after all. our AHR was super relaxed....kind of like a garden cocktail party, lots of food, white wine sangria, beer, dessert, music a la ipod play list and 2 speeches (a roast to the groom which is a family tradition and us thanking everyone for coming) that lasted all of 5 min. we definitely wanted to stay from a "reception" feel.