We are also sticking to our "presence is your gift" policy - but if people have asked, we have given all of our parents a few ideas of things that may be useful to us. We figure, since we don't want any gifts, saying that your presence is your gift and then telling them where we are registered is a little contradictory. For those that ask us directly because they are unable to attend and would like to send a gift instead, we usually say that we will appreciate whatever it is that they decide to get us.