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And who knows about the divorced couple, guess I'll just have to wait and see what happens with that, hopefully if the wife does go, they'll be able to keep things civil for mine and my fiance's sake.

Thank you both, I honestly wasn't even worried about the wedding at all until I started thinking about what everyone else is going to do. Guess I'll just start worrying about me so I don't forget what I need to be doing! Like picking out songs! ) I will have my fiance let his friend know that we need a definite answer though. I haven't heard anything good about his new soon to be wife, they actually got into a huge fight right before they just said 'hey whatever, lets get married'. This was after they had known each other for only two weeks. I feel like she's just gonna be drama waiting to happen. Or not, I guess I won't know until it happens lol. I'm gonna try to just focus on us. )

Our wedding is about 3 months away now. What do you do when couples you have invited have broken up or are getting a divorce?? One couple, which happens to be my fiance's brother and his wife, are now getting a divorce, they have already paid for the trip and I've been told the wife is still planning on coming but the husband does not want her to come. The other couple has broken up, and the girlfriend is not coming now, but the guy is now getting married to someone we've never met and is planning on bringing her. This is hearsay as well. He didn't tell me he was coming or bringing a complete stranger but he's telling other people. I don't understand why no one is coming to me or my fiance and letting us know anything. Our wedding is going to be very small so this matters! But these are also big steps in their lives and I don't want to feel like I'm pressuring my wedding on them. At the same time though, I'm already bummed that because this is a destination wedding, none of my family will be there and none of my close friends that I've known for years will be there. They just can't afford to go. So the people that are going are part of my fiance's family and mutual friends that we both have. The last thing I wanted was awkwardness, drama and strangers at my wedding when when not a single person will even be there for just me. I'm very thankful that my fiance and I have known each other long enough that I have become good friends with his family and friends, I'm just afraid this is going to turn into a disaster on what's supposed to be the biggest and best day of my life. Am I wrong for feeling this way? How can I talk to them without them thinking I'm pressuring them with so much going on in their lives?? This wasn't a last minute wedding, we've been engaged over a year and half and we booked the wedding this past December and just now, things are starting to fall apart 3 months before the wedding. Should I have my fiance step in and find out what's going on with everyone? Considering this is his family and friends we're talking about? I'm honestly afraid he would be rude about it lol. What should I do?? Thanks for any advice you have.

Also, any help about the salon would be good. Me and my fiance aren't really into 'spa' days. We don't like massages or anything like that. Can I use the $300 credit towards just getting my hair and make-up done for the ceremony? Will there be money left over if I decide I want to try something new at the spa? I'll be getting my nails done before I go so I won't have to worry about that either. Also, how are they on make-up? I would do it myself but I honestly don't like the way I do my make-up most of the time since I hardly ever wear it. lol. And the resort credit, do me and my fiance share the whole thing? Or is it a credit for each of us? One more question, I want to swim with the dolphins, can we use the credit for some pictures of that? Thanks a bunch!

so glad I found this post!! Those are the exact colors I am wanting and such great ideas and beautiful pictures! I'm wanting to know more about the crinoline in the dress! I was wanting to add something pink to my dress and this was such an awesome and pretty idea!!! Can anyone provide instructions on how to sew it in? Or should I leave that up to a seamstress? Thanks so much for posting all the details! I'll be getting married at Moon Palace in September and was wondering how I would be able to make a complimentary wedding have the look I want, I'll definitely be bringing some pink sashes for the chairs and tables now! Also, maybe some advice on how to travel with my wedding dress?? It's very bulky and fluffy, (think cinderella full ballgown) How should I get it on the plane?? We're flying with Continental Airlines. thanks a bunch for any help you guys can be!