I think that her statement is referring more to the Formal pictures that I assume you will be taking after the ceremony with you and your husband, possibly family etc. In my experience these are the photos that they don't want distractions multiple cameras etc. Typically they are taking the time, creativity and all their knowledge to pose or get the correct framing and setup to make a good shot and they do not want it to be ruined or stollen by others. Photography is an art. I also read this statement that I have coppied “MARCIA E. ROBERTS†will allow guests to take photos during the ceremony, reception, snapshots during the processional and recessional, during candid events at the church, and at the altar." Which pretty much states that your guest are allowed to take pictures during just about every aspect but the Formal shots that I assume you will be doing at some point in time. hope this helps