LeeLee, I too am having the same problem. We are planning to get married in Jamaica and then we are planning to come back and have a "celebration" of our marrriage, not a formal reception. I too want it to be more of a casual flow of people eating, drinking, etc. I didn't know if setting up a website to explain the vision further would work or just having family and friends spread the word. sort of off subject but, What type of attire are you planning to wear? What do you invision your guests wearing?