My Jamaican destination wedding has been in the works for over a year now and everyone knows about it and hardly anyone can come. I had a bridal shower a few months ago and I can't remember who or how many, but i know i told a few people that I was NOT doing an AHR. Well now i have decided i want/need to do one because so many people cannot come who originally said they were 100% coming (story of many of us destination brides lives, right?!).
My wedding is in a month and a half (April 19) and I can only have the AHR in mid August. Question is when do I inform/invite guests about this? I am thinking i will send a message to everyone from our wedding website right before i go to Jamaica to say that there will be an AHR in August, date not yet set, info to come (kinda like an STD). And when i have the details planned out and after I come back from Jamaica, then i will send out the official invites - does this sound okay? How did you go about informing/inviting people?