Iciz - you are not a bad bride at all! I am not doing anything special either. I actually down-graded to the silver package since I don't care about their photography. The $600 for the mariachi band is the only thing I wanted from the gold and the difference is still cheaper. I am choosing basic centerpieces & basic flowers. I just went with the silver menu & called it a day! At this point, I dont care about anything! I am pretty much ready to get there & realized all this other crap means nothing. We will be in paradise, the rest I am so over with! lol The only thing I really did was get chair sashes, place cards & table numbers. Other than that I am going with the basics... Don't worry I am sure your wedding is going to be amazing! I am sure they have everything checked off & are on top of it. I hope you hear from them soon! stefkva - here are the pics from Etsy site...I didn't get to take mine yet. Sorry they are so big I love the idea of a U shaped table. I could not get my FI on board with it.