Those shoes you fell in love with are so cute! I am also trying to figure out about the I DOs. I just googled i do rhinestone & a few links came here. Here is one that is only $5.00 http://commerce.idmi.net/ecommerce/catalog_detail.asp?cid=121&pi=35653 Or maybe you could do it yourself? Buy the stones at any craft store & write the words out in pencil & put the stones on top. I am not crafty enough for this but just an idea if you cant find any... As for the dress, maybe when you bustle the dress up you can have that measured to your flip flops?