I was the same way. I just bought my dress this week. Before that I tried on about 30 different dresses. I even went alone because I felt bad taking people with me. I thought I was being too picky, but I think you are allowed to be for a wedding dress!! I never did have that "moment" either but I did keep comparing all the dresses I was trying on to it and I kept thinking about it. My friend told me "that's it". So I bought it & couldn't be happier. I honestly think I didn't buy it at first and kept looking because I kept thinking maybe there is a different dress out there that I will like better, even though I would go & compare. If a dress has only certain things about it that you like & dont like then I would say, keep looking until you find one that you like everything about. Don't just settle with a dress! You will find one you love. Keep looking!