That's great that you stuck with it even if you took days off. You lost inches & that's all that matter! After I completed Insanity I went back to doing another round of P90x. I think its more of a personal preference really. I would say do what you enjoy so that way you will want to do it. Me personally, I like the programmed workouts. I feel they push me harder & I don't get so bored. I was just going to the gym & doing the same crap everyday where if there is a schedule to follow I feel it motivates me & I dont want to skip one. Your motivation should be how you look & feel now. How your FI loves the way you look & I am sure you feel more confident too! Maybe try to do a different beachbody workout? I know insanity is very hard but they have a lot of different workouts. I actually tried Turbo Fire for 2 weeks after Insanity but HATED it. It was too slow for me. Check out their other workouts online. And remember we are all here for each other going through the same thing!