We are doing the same with the legal stuff...keeping it on the DL at home but we are not telling anyone. I will change all my name on everything when we get back. Not looking forward to that! Odd they wont let you do it on the beach unless its 50 people. Hopefully like you said in person it will be different. I dont really see what the big deal is! Either way no matter where it ends up it will still be beautiful. The resort alone is gorgeous so no worries! We are having ours on the Spice Terrace. At least thats what was confirmed a few months back when I last heard from them. I think that is good for the oot bags. The camera & mugs alone are great! I would love to do them but our budget is kind of getting out of hand! I really wanted to do bubba kegs but we shall see. We are only doing 1 bag per couple too. I have bought mini lint rollers, advil, travel sunscreen, travel aloe, band aids and custom koozies. I wanted to get shout wipes but am having a hard time finding them cheap & crystal light to go or something. I am also worried its not enough but I dont want to just put crap in there to fill it that people wont use...also when I last visited EPM the rooms had a few items in the bathroom like sewing kits etc.