Janet1480

I'm wondering the same thing about the personalized bag...I'm thinking to maybe just get a really cool mod bag instead without the logo and maybe hang a tag from it or something instead with our logo

or the stuff will be held prisoner by customs!

Thanks, me too!

Thats part of the fun of this forum...you can get some great ideas from all these savvy women and make them your own through your own wedding colors and if you have a monogram or maybe add your own theme to the idea. I have seen some pretty amazing and creative ideas on this site...i have been noting them all down and then when i get to those things i will pull out all my notes and create my own ideas its so much fun!

WOW that does suck The only thing i am worried about through my research now is that it can take up to 3 months to ship stuff to the resort (if you go with the cheap methods) ...if you want priority shipping it will cost a small fortune. What if the stuff gets lost during shipping...i think i would have a heart attack. I suppose my luggage could get lost during travelling but probably less risk of that especially on a direct flight. Maybe i should buy a seat on the plane for my luggage next to me ahahahah kidding!

I think the whole thing actually bothers FI more then me...he wants me to be happy and is annoyed that she is stressing me out during this amazing time in our lives but i told him not to worry! I am still having fun! Thanks for your comments and well wishes!

Thanks...I'm going to have a chat with her this weekend and see how it goes *fingers crossed* Otherwise, it is what it is! I cant change who she is so i will just enjoy my planning without her and just be there for her wedding as much as i can

Thanks Lizk23 I would LOVE if we could bounce ideas off each other and share in the wedding planning experience, it would be nice to have my sister participate. I invited her dress shopping with the other BM's but she decided not to come because she felt like wedding dress shopping for herself that day instead...she didnt have an apt to do this ahead of time and it wasnt planned. I actually expressed to her that since i am her MOH and she is mine and we are sisters that it would have been nice to share in her wedding dress shopping experience with her (trying to put a posiitive spin on things) and she said "its not a big deal" so she didnt come. I am usually not one to complain about these types of situations. But she isnt making it easy! I hope she will come around and since her wedding is in May, hopefully she will be more active in my planning from May to October. On the bright side, I am taking the high road....I am helping her with her planning, designing her invitations and i am going to do what i can to make her day as special as it should be!

You're right, if she was still interested and participating in my wedding then maybe i wouldnt be as annoyed in this situation. As much as i agree and would like to express my feelings (in a non judgemental and gentle way) My sister is unfortuantely the type of person who over reacts to everything and would likely freak out and turn the tables on me. She is a drama queen <---- that my friends is an understatement. LOL dont get me wrong....My sister has a lot of great qualities and is a very loving person and i love her dearly but she doesnt think before she speaks or acts and is a little bit selfish. She creates her own drama. I think either way though, so i can enjoy my wedding planning and get on with it I will have to take my chances and tell her how I feel anyways. Thanks for your comments and opinion. Its nice to get outside perspectives because its nice to know you arent reacting throguh emotionally crowded feelings

Yes, its very sad how people react. Its worse when they dont even realize what they are doing. I'm not letting it ruin my wedding planning fun and experience but it doesnt make it less annoying or frustrating

I like the first one better. it flatters your shape and is very elegant. It suits you. The second one isnt as flattering in my opinion, it doesnt hug your body as nicely. The funny rippling in the back can probably be fixed through alterations and when you have the dress tailored to you. good luck with your decision

I hear you! thats what i say....by the time i get back to my room its going to be dark and i wont see the ocean anyway and when i wake up i am in the shower and getting ready to go IN the ocean! some poeple just like to hear themselves talk i think....people create their own drama!

I know what you mean. I dont even read reviews on tripadvisor anymore. People are ignorant and forget that they are travelling to a different city/country and that they are not at home anymore...language barriers, food, service etc....its gonna be different! you are on vacation, have a drink and relax! People are so critical about the smallest things. You have to go to these places with an open mind knowing that some small things may happen and just let it go! But honestly, the Ru in Ochos Rios is really nice, the food was great, beach beautiful, grounds well kept. You wont be dissapointed!

You have to go with your heart! its your one special day! the dress is important and I know budgets are important but i think maybe cutting somewhere else to get a newer perfect dress would make you feel better! Good Luck and I know it will all work out!

*sigh* I know...its all a part of the experience though! I am enjoying it regardless

what about something like axe body spray or something along those lines?

I agree, its def about the mental power and will but not eating cheesecake helps too ahahaha I think the key is to find your comfort zone and go witht that. This should be a life style change and not a crash diet....easier to eat better and excercise if it becomes a part of your daily life rather then it being a chore.

Thanks! I will check that site out. I hesitate to order dresses online for 3 diff people...i brave it for myself lol not sure i want to brave it for this but i suppose i can return them I have one girl who is completely shapeless and is about 90lbs and then another who is extremely pear shaped and then the other who is very tall and curvy LOL.....so i am hoping the dresses will also balance that out. It will all come together Im sure

Totally off topic LOL mmcst38 I have been to the resort where you will be married two years ago and last year my good friend got married there and it is absolutely amazing! you will love it just thought i would mention that Quote: Originally Posted by mmcst38 This is so true, it has taken me by surprise how helpful some people are and truly happy for us they are

Its gorgeous! Why are you doubting your purchase?

those are great! My biggest challenge is that all 3 girls are completely different in body type so i am trying to find 3 different dresses that will suit each of them but will have color consistency (prob have to stay with the same designer) but will also blend well together....i think thats why its been so difficult. its a tall order!

I'm booking a hair trial at the spa before the wedding and bringing hair inspiration pics with me. But just incase i hate what they do I will try to have a simple hair do selected and planned with someone in my family that can maybe curl my hair for me. I guess it depends what you are looking for. In my case i should be okay either way because i just want to leave my hair down, long and flowy with some sort of flower in it

Dislike!!! American Idol

Oh and shall I mention that she has completely disregarded my wedding! She hasnt asked me about planning, has not been available for any dress shopping etc (she is my MOH by the way) and she asked me yesterday to design her wedding invitations and help her decorate her hall and pick her menu and it needs to be done ASAP because her wedding is in a few months *sigh* ...ok! so that was a bit of a vent too LOL

So maybe I am crazy....and you ladies can tell me if I am LOL My sister is quite a few years older then I am. she has been with her FI for over 15 years and they never got married or had kids...... I announced my engagement in December and FI and I are getting married in October and now ALL OF A SUDDEN more then 15 years later she is getting married and rushing to plan it all and has decided to have her wedding before mine WTF!!!! Am i crazy to be angry/frustrated about this?