Acutie, I did want to send them around August, just not sure how long to give them to RSVP... But you're right I should probably base it on when they can still make changes for the booking. Thanks! That really helps. This is why I'm obsessed with this site, you ladies have been great! I might stick with the one shoulder, I just need to figure out if it's within budget authentic or if I should just "knock-off" it as well! It would be nice to know about the DJ and photog, especially since I am planning on going through the resort with these things! I want to do the Devine Package, I think with all the added perks that it's worth it. Plus we like the menu better for that as well... Surf and Turf! yummm.... Oh I remember people wondering about swapping menus, did ayone get an answer for that?