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Congrats on your upcoming wedding, so exciting!! Aside from the wedding coordinators, which since I had my wedding there last August she looks like she stepped her game up, we didn't have any major "cons". I wish I had known I could purchase the entire photo CD for $500 with all the photos on it unedited, but the ones I did get were awesome anyway. My husband and I constantly say we can't wait to go back to Dreams. The grounds and the employees were amazing. All of our guests and ourselves had the best time. Do be aware that June is the beginning of their rainy season. We got married during the rainy season and it rained during our reception so we had to move inside. Rain season there means beautiful sunny hot days followed by an evening thunderstorm that clears up when the sun rises. It helped to cool things down. Also, hurricanes can come at that time of year. Just make sure the wedding coordinator has a set plan in place in case of rain many days ahead of your wedding, this is where we messed up. I would still do my entire wedding over again, rainy night and all, it was that good there!! Hope that helps!

A word of advice: Order room service from the Spa while getting your hair/make-up done and tell them you're getting your in the spa getting ready for your wedding and what time/room you want it delivered to. We did this and as soon as we got back to our room it was there. Sometimes room service is scary quick and other times it can take a little bit.

I brought a pic of the hair and she did a great job of matching it. For make-up I just told her what colors I usually use and said I wanted it "more bold". They have a binder there of current pictures for hair, all my BM's used it.

Also, we got our wedding video back today. It came out great, they did a great job. We only did what came with the package (getting ready, ceremony, dinner) and now I kind of wish we did the whole wedding. But nevertheless, we were impressed and it came out great.

WHHHOOO HOOOO! 18 days!!! The lanterns were just the paper ones. I got them off the internet, but Ikea usually has them, too. They didn't blow around at all. Fatima put them out so I don't know if she put anything in them. I can't think of anything I saw at the markets or downtown in PV that you could use. I did see a wedding when we were there and they used the large palm fans from the palm trees and made these like little archs down the sides of the isle. It looked really neat. I bet if you ask Fatima, she'd know what I'm describing. Oceana has dark blue and white table cloths and under neath they are wooden slat tables. There were square and rectangle tables when we were there. I don't think an itinerary is a bad idea. I would think it would be helpful for everyone and then less questions and no one missing out on anything. IMO.

We got them when we booked out fishing charter. I got one and then copied it for all my guests. http://www.puertovallartatours.net/coupons-discounts.htm

I'm missing Mexico and Dreams badly!!! So, I finished my planning thread today. If you're interested here it is: http://www.bestdestinationwedding.com/t/76537/kerribs-long-and-pic-filled-after-the-fact-dreams-pv-planning-thread

We Trashed The Dress the morning after. My sister is a photographer and offered to do some of the pics for us.

Here is a link to our photos. I meant to put in a section about the photographer but forgot. He was great! http://20082011kerricory.drepvphoto.adventurephotos.com.mx/#/slideshow-1/

Rehearsal: At our resort the night before the wedding. Cory’s shirt was a coral linen shirt from Sears and so were his shorts. Boat shoes from Bass. My dress was a cotton eyelet style dress from Banana republic. We did a bonfire after dinner. Tables: Center pieces: Little did I know this was more of a hassle than I thought it would be. I wanted candles and my colors incorporated and didn’t want traditional flower center pieces. We lucked out at Ikea. We bought 8 sets of vases: 3 pack of tall cylinders in 3 different heights and widths. Light/lime green gravel. White pillar candles also in different heights and widths. Bought 2 large baskets of shells from Koyal Wholesale and spay painted them champagne. Bought 3 small boxes of mini starfish and white sand dollars from Oriental trading. Spay painted the starfish champagne and hand painted green starfish shapes on the sand dollars. Table Names: We named the tables after places we have been. We made a collage of pictures we took at those places and put it on the front with the name and mounted it on gold paper. On the back we also had the table name and an explanation of why it was special to us. To hold the table names, we bought box of 12 shell/wire place holders from Oriental Trading and spray painted them champagne, too. Escort Cards: At The Christmas Tree Shop I found medium size white sand dollars and finger starfish. I thought they were real until I got home and saw “made in china†stickers and then realized they were plaster. These were to signal the wait staff if the meal was chicken & Steak or fish. Attached to each one was a tag in green, white or gold with the guest’s name and table. (paper from Michael’s) Maracas: we planned to buy these in Mexico but then decided to get as much done at home as possible. We found medium sized maracas for $1.65 a pair at amols.com. Cory’s mom made tags to attach to them. Unbeknownst to us, she rewrote the saying, all I could do was laugh. Other: Shoes optional - we made this on vistaprint. It was at the beginning of the isle for the ceremony. Isle Decorations- paper lanterns in wedding colors, various sizes to, lined the isle. (Koyal wholesale website) Bonfire- the night of the rehearsal we did a bonfire for all our guests. Made on vistaprint. Fans- It’s hot and humid in PV in August, we got these fans for free from my matron of honor that she forgot to use at her wedding the year before. Bridesmaids’ gifts: Bracelets (mentioned above), Hangers, swim cover-ups, hair up-do’s, gift/beach bags, flip flops Groomsmen Gifts: Sun glasses, flip flops, fishing charter Hair & Makeup: we had it done at the salon. I paid for all my bridemaid’s hair and/or makeup. Trash The Dress: My sister is a photographer and she offered to do this for us. We did it the morning after the wedding. AWESOME TIME!!

Cake: Wasn’t that important to us because we know most ppl don’t wind up eating it. We got seaglass covered balls and initials to go on the table and a generic H with a little bling to go on the cake. We never saw the cake or topper again after this picture Accessories: I bought bangles from Forever 21 and mixed a few sets together. One said “love†on it and the others had pearls, which I love. My earrings were from Nordstroms Rack. Simple studs, I don’t like how dangle earrings look on me. Hair flower - I did a DIY, it looked great but when I put it in my hair it was HUGE! I bought a smaller and simpler one at Claire’s for like $4. Veil- My veil was my “something borrowed†from my matron of honor. I let my girls were what ever jewelry they wanted, but I bought them all custom made bracelets from etsy (same seller as my sash). They all cried when they got them, they were stunning! Garters: Both from Frederick's of Hollywood. My toss one was blue and was my “something blue†Invites: At first I thought passports or boarding passes would be a good idea, but I wanted to do things a little more traditionally and less DIY for the invites since we were inviting 212 guests. We used Invitations By Dawn and were able to use a coupon code we found online that saved us nearly $100. We purchased 140 invites for only $300. We selected the wording and they were a big hit. The long card folded and it said "Come to Mexico....With love Cory& Kerri" then when they opened it they saw all the wording.The response cards were filled with well wishes and cute notes. We sent these out in early March 2011. OOT bags: Prior to BDW I had no idea they even existed. I was hesitant about making them, one for cost and two I knew we’d be lugging them down to Mexico. We couldn’t decide on bags to use and didn’t want to make any custom ones with our names. We are pretty “green†people so while getting flipflops at ON we found reusable grocery bags. They weren’t in our colors but they were big, sturdy, and we knew people could reuse them. They wound up being a huge hit and we saw most of our guests using them and their contents. Cory’s mom made tags with each person/couple’s name and we tied them to the handles. Included in the OOT bag: 2 koozies (mexican poncho & one funny one) [oriental trading] propel & snapple drink mix hair ties nail file water proof beach box - we wrote their names with silver sharpie Oh Sh!t Kit: First Aid kit, pepto, immodioum AD, chapstick, advil, aloe vera (cvs.com and drugstore.com) Puerto Vallarta discount card Thank you post card (vistaprint) Info Book - guests’ photos and fun info, MX/PV info, itineraries - (made on powerpoint & printed at office max) Do Not Disturb Sign (vistaprint) Colgate Wisps

Bridesmaids: Originally I had my girls wearing a champagne colored dress from David’s bridal. But I was not “in love†and knew they’d never wear it again. On the news one day they were showcasing a boutique that did convertible dresses. I saw love!! I went to etsy and ordered fabric swatches in shades of green from a few sellers that were reasonably priced. This was great because I got to see and feel the fabric in person. I settled on seller Corali Beatrix with a dress in “pistachioâ€. All of my girls loved their dresses and they are all petite so she was great and custom made their waists smaller for no extra charge. Groom & Groomsmen: I knew I wanted white linen shirts and khaki pants. We were very close to doing studiosuits but some of the GM didn’t want to order from across seas. I went to Old Navy and they happened to have khaki colored linen pants and white linen shirts. Cory’s shirt was slightly different, it had a white pattern embroidered on it. And our ring bearer had the same shirt as him but mini. Shoes: We got flip flops for all of the BM and GM at Old navy. Girls were gold with gold jewels. Boys were brown. I got these sparkly little gems from Tommy Bahama for more $$ than I should have spent, but they were worth it, and I’ve worn them many times after, I get so many complements. Flowers: I was torn between a white flower bouquet and a brooch bouquet. THen I came across a DIY blog on here and saw someone that made a brooch & natural touch flower one. I decided to do the same. I ordered about 30 brooches in my wedding colors off e-bay and then attached them to floral wire. I also got 4 starfish and 4 special brooches, one for each bridesmaid. I brought them along with a pic from the blog to Mexico with me and had the florist do it with real flowers. It turned out AMAZING!! (but also REALLY heavy!). For Cory I wanted Kermit Mums (they are green and he likes Kermit the Frog) and the groomsmen we got a white rose with a green orchid. We also had matching corsages & boutonnieres made for our moms and dads using the same flowers. We made a toss bouquet out of white roses we picked up in town at walmart and then wrapped the stems in left over green and white ribbon. (Inspiration)

Much like anyone else, I want to thank all that have made BDW possible and each and everyone of you that has answered questions, calmed fears, and inspired. I borrowed a lot of ideas from people on here, sorry I do not remember all of you, but thank you!!!!! Engagement: Cory and I met when I was 18 and had just moved from NJ to CA. We had some classes together at a local college in South Lake Tahoe, Ca. We dated for nearly 7 years, and 3 of them were spent with Cory finishing school in Montana and me finishing in CA. I had expected him to ask so many times over the seven years that I had just about given up. I stopped expecting it because after any special outing I would come home thinking “he didn’t askâ€. In the summer of 2010, Cory (and little did I know it, my best friend Kim) schemed a way to get me back to Tahoe to a private beach he and I had spent many summers at with the dog. It was there that he asked and I was so shocked. It was nothing short of awesome! Planning: We are from opposite sides of the country so we had to come up with a plan so one person’s family wasn’t doing all the traveling. We had always talked of getting married at a ski resort in Lake Tahoe because it was special to us, but to plan a wedding like we wanted there would have be crazy expensive. We decided to do DW so no one’s family was favored and Mexico was in the middle. After reading reviews, we chose Dreams Puerto Vallarta. We picked August 20 because I am a teacher and that was during our summer break (which ironically wound up changing and I missed the first 2 weeks of teaching). Neither of us had been there but it looked amazing and had nothing but good reviews. STD: We decided to save money and not get professional engagement photos. We made STD on vistaprint using large postcards and some of our favorite pics of us. Served its purpose and turned out great. We sent these out in September 2010 (11 months out). Colors: I didn’t want to go with anything typical and I wanted to use colors that would complement the natural beauty of the resort. We decided on white, champagne, and light green. This proved a littler harder to find decor so I wound up doing a lot of DIY. Dress: I have always loved lace and always pictured having some lace on my dress. I am fairly simple and decided that I would get a DW dress. I first went with a plain dress from Nordstroms, but it came in and was too plain. After many dress shops, I wound up at David’s bridal. The lace made me fall in love and the back of the dress sold me! I replaced the sash on the dress with a more blingy one I got on etsy (Seller daniel12 - who was awesome and reasonably priced!).

There is a great cigar shop downtown. If you grab a taxi at Dreams and ask to go to the flea market/ el centro, have them drop you off at the beginning of the market (they usually do anyway). There is a cigar shop next door to the flea market it has a statue of a man dancing in front. The owners are great, the prices are reasonable, and cigars are delicious!!

Ok, I made mine for my wedding....kind of. I prepared all of the brooches ahead of time and then showed my florist a pic of the original brooch/flower bouquet on here. It came out EXACTLY like I wanted, but be warned, my arm was tired of holding it after all the pic, dang it was heavy. All of my guests loved it. It was so unique and added that extra bling I was looking for. I got all of my brooches off eBay. I stuck to the advice of setting a price limit. I got each of mine for $4 or less. I also made some from my BM's bouquets. For theirs I got them each a starfish and then one thing that reflected their personality - I wound up getting these from Michaels in the necklace/bead section.

I was SO PLEASE with how every thing turned out from this site. Worth it!!

I brought down my own maracas...silly I know but I thought it was worth it. I didn't want to spend my time down there scrambling around trying to get decorations and then maybe never even find what I had in mind. I got a good deal on "medium" sized maracas from this website http://www.amols.com/catalog/product/MX702 there were all different sizes and colors, but this was most affordable and it wound up looking really great at our wedding. They were only $1.65 for 2. We ordered a few extra just in case, and luckily we did, 2 handles were broken off in our suitcases, but we just glued them back on and you couldn't tell. We tied on little tags with that maraca saying. As for additional decor, I would not go crazy, it is so beautiful there that you don't need to go all out. I wanted candles galore and since Dreams was so expensive I bought a bunch from Ikea and some vases to put them in. It was a lot to travel with, so keep that in mind. What were you thinking about for decor? Maybe that would help ppl give you insight on if you should bring stuff down or not.

They had giant cookies and this fondu style melted chocolate. It was nice and I didn't mind it not being traditional smores. I wouldn't worry about it. I did the big lawn signs. Packed them on the bottom of the large suitcases. I left my sign holder there that I purchased with my sign from vistaprint. Ask Fatima if she still has it, you can use it. I left ALLLL of my decorations there: 8 sets of 3 tall cylinder vases (each different size), 40 off white pillar candles (never lit) each different sizes, shells - white or champagne, green rocks (went in the vases with the candles), table number holders (shells with a tall wire number holder - champagne color). If anyone wants to use any of it, ask Fatima, I told her to let other brides use it because I wasn't lugging it back with me. Went to the fiesta. It was really fun and the food was great! But, I would not incorporate it into your wedding. It isn't private or intimate feeling. See above! I'd stick to the dinner and bonfire. We did that and it was so great! Ours went longer than 4 hours but we were never charged they just allowed the rest of the resort guests to come in if they wanted after 10:30. No one really came in, so it wasn't a big deal. We left at 2 am and the bar was still open, but mind you we were in the sports bar. They hand make their margaritas. Ask for top shelf tequlia and tell them to make it a double other wise it is weak and too sweet (I'm not an alchy - all their drinks are weak, I guess it saves money). Also, the taste depended on what bar and what day it was. they were usually good but always tasted different. Cocktail was an open bar, you can order anything. The bartender is private for you wedding and they have people walking around taking orders, too. If you order a signature drink, it isn't extra. However, a round of tequlia shots for the entire wedding is an extra charge just like getting a champagne toast for the entire wedding would be.

Ashleydawn85 - We had 4 guests stay outside the resort. They were able to come in whenever they wanted, but had let the resort know beforehand. For the wedding, we let the WC know and gave her their names. We paid for their cost of entry that day and also had to pay extra for their cocktail/dinner at the wedding. There was no problem. AliMcBaal-Do the sign!!! It came in handy and it looked cute!! Vistaprint was a God for all things wedding related!

We are just beginning TTC. My family has a history of difficulty conceiving and tough pregnancies, so we are a little nervous. The Dr. said not to worry and said I would have to wait through a full year of TTC before he'd do any testing. I knew he'd say that, but with my family history I was hoping he'd be a little more willing to test earlier. After reading all these pages, I had no idea about the temperature and cycle connection. Gosh, I feel like I know so little about my own body!! Hah!

Bonfire: We had one. It was $400 for 64 people and the price varies depending on people (I think $300-400). We had waiter service the entire time. The bonfire was SOO WORTH IT!! We had a sign made (lawn sign - Vistaprint) to keep resort guests out. It had our picture and it said "Cory & Kerri's Bonfire....Wedding guests only" It looked cute. Our bonfire as seen from the deluxe tower. Hair: It was $59 for all of my bridesmaids hair (long or short) and $49 for makeup. I paid for it as part of their gift and had it billed to my room, but they will bill it to their rooms if you aren't paying. Also, people have said it is small in the salon. It is, there are 3 salon stations and a sink, but we fit 6 of us in there with no problem and all hung out in there while we were getting our hair/make up done.

OK, posted my review. It is LONG (surprise!). Planning Journal to come. SaraBen2011, i'm not friends with Fatima (see review). Search me on FB Kerri Blaine, I changed my settings or PM me on here to add you.

Hi guys, sorry, I am a teacher so to keep my students away from me I have my FB on super settings! I will change the settings for a few days or just PM if you want me to add me. I posted my proshots, trash the dress, guests' photos, and random mexico photos.

Hi Girls, We're back and married, WHOOOHOOO! I'm still writing my review and planning thread. In a nutshell: We had an amazing time at the resort. There were some bumps along the way with the wedding. With persistence it was all smoothed over. In the end we both we happy and all of our guests loved everything we did. (I will post a detailed one soon and let you know when I do.) But until then, here are my pro shots....I know we all love photos. We also did a trash the dress but used my sister who is a professional photographer. If you want to add me on facebook you can see all billion photos of the resort, wedding, bonfire, trash the dress, etc. Kerri Blaine. http://20082011kerricory.drepvphoto.adventurephotos.com.mx/#/slideshow-1/

13 days until my wedding!!! SO excited and anxious! But now you girls have me guessing my timeline!!!! AHHHH!!!