LilyRose: it seems I haven't been "active on the forums" enough to have a signature yet. JessMarie: I know what you mean about the AHR. You know, I realized that I am way more involved in the wedding stuff, but that's only because my work schedule is super open. So I just happen to have way more time for all the web research than him. But not for the DIY stuff. That crafty thing will be divided equally. We will be doing our own invitations for the wedding, but also our own invitations for the AHR. Now we are talking about around 60 invitations...by hand. Well, we do have a printer, but someone has to write on the envelopes, or type in on the computer for labels. Plus, we'll probably make the favors ourselves...by hand. So that's another 60 DIY stuff. Now my fiance does not have any addresses for anyone. Partly because he never needed anyone's address, and partly because he switch his cell often, and doesn't re-typed everything. So that means he'll have the make calls, write addresses down, etc. Then cut little pieces of paper, stamp them with the nice Michaels stamps and ink, bla bla bla. I'm am very much convinced, considering the patience level of most guys, that his list will be drastically trimed down after the 10th invitation, without me having to look like the bad guy Speaking of me having lots of research time...I found that a lot of people have time-shares in St.Lucia, some in villas, or condos, some even at Windjammer Landings! And it does happen that they can't go for their weeks, so they try to rent them out! So you can now get the last week of May and 1st of June 2011 for $600 at Windjammer! Also, I found that Villa Capri is up for sale. It was still up for sale as of December 2010. Can't remember which one of you is getting married there and when, but I would check that out. http://realestate.escapeartist.com/P-2015316/