Haha, I like that- I will be telling the people that are not coming the same thing. I am so sorry so many of you ladies are going through this. We have been quite fortunate that we have 43 people booked so far. Those people have placed their $50 deposit for the hotel. Our flight prices are still not out and I'm scared that once the prices come out that they are going to be high with gas prices right now and people will end up not coming. The majority of our guests are our friends, which makes us quite fortunate because we only have about 10 members of our families coming. Apparently we have closer friends than family. We did have one couple tell us for the past 2 years before we got engaged that they were coming to Mexico no matter what and our male friend even offered to be our officiant!! Then when it came time to put down the deposit, they ignored us and waited 2 weeks after the deposit was due to tell us that they did not have time to come with our male friend starting a new job. (We are getting married the day after Thanksgiving- you will have time off! Ugh, annoying!) But I keep telling myself the same thing, it will not matter who isn't there once we get there!