In addition to what speckles told you: 16. There is not an additional cost for a sit down private dinner - but it is only offered inside in one of the ballrooms, you cannot have a sit down dinner outside, only buffet menus. 17. I HIGHLY doubt tthey will allow you to do this as that would be incredibly confusing and complicated for the resort and your guests. They tried to argue with me that I could not have my wedding ceremony, cocktail hour and reception at Sun Palace while my fiance, my guests and myself are staying at Moon Palace- so if you can get them to agree- more power to you! 22. I believe the only discounts you get when you book through a member is discounts on rooms, airport transportation and an extra mani and pedi, you do not receive extra discounts on wedding related things.