The extras definetly add up without a doubt. How many sashes are you doing on the chairs, I recently confirmed with Susanna that they do not charge for the second colored sash, unless you are doing 3 colors in that case there may be an additional fee. The DJ is kicking my butt, that was the one thing I didnt really anticipate, its double what I budgeted for. I bought colored linen napkins for $0.50 each as opposed to the resort fee of $3.00. So there are ways to cut costs. I also am doing centerpieces from the resort for $30 a table which is a lot more reasonable then the outrageous ellaborate floral arrangements they send over. After thinking about the supplies and traveling with all the stuff to make my own centerpieces this $30 per table was more cost effective. Oh and for those whom are doing OOT bags, I just ordered a ton of chapsticks from this vendor for $0.29 each and have made my own personalized labels to wrap around the tubes. Oh and I found individually wrapped packets of Pepto for $16 for 25 packs at WB Mason. http://www.bulkapothecary.com/lip-balm/white-stick-lip-balm-comes-in-6-great-flavors-starting-at-19-unit/