JayKay

We haven't completely decided but I think we will do something like this.

LOVE these shoes!!!!!

They look great!!

Congrats on being a Mrs.!! Great thread, thanks for sharing!

Thanks for sharing!!

Your dress is beautiful!!

Welcome!! This site is amazing! I would be totally lost without it!! Happy planning:)

I love your original ering, but I also love the new setting you picked out!

I would contact them early just to give them a heads up because I know sometimes they can get busy. And I always tell them I need it about two weeks sooner then I do, just to make sure its done in time, especially since December will probably be a busy month and plus all the holidays.

Welcome! Happy Planning!!

Thank you so much for posting this!

I love this idea!!!

They look great!

These are awesome!

Wow, they look awesome!

Great idea!

You can change the gap between the song on the ipod. As to sound difference I don't know.

Love all the creative wording.

They look fantastic!! I love MIB invites!

I don't think you are wrong to think this way at all. It is really frustrating with guests. I think the best thing for you to do would be with your Fi to sit down and talk with these people, or email them, or do something to find out. Like you said the one has only been saying things to other family and friends so maybe you need to hear from him first hand on the situation. And In some ways I supposed if they have divorced or split up and both want to come then it is their issue and they are going to have to deal with one another. It does suck that none of your family is going. Most of all just remember that its your wedding and the only people who have to be there are you and your FI! And its your special day and you need to do what will make you the happiest!! Good luck with everything!

There are lots of cute dyable shoes our there these days! Good luck finding the perfect shoes:)

I have had a pair of shoes dyed before. I was a bridesmaid in my friends wedding and she wanted us all the having matching white shoes. They were dyable shoes, so after her wedding I dyed them a blue color just because I thought I would never wear the shoes if they were white. They turned out great and were exactly the color I wanted. I say if you can't find any shoes you like then consider dyables. Its a great way to get a great shoe and the color you want without being 4 inch heels!!

Great site!!

We are not bringing a photographer at home, but I think giving them an OOT bag and including them in some things is a nice gesture that will not go un noticed. Plus it gives you time to get a feel for each other and probably make for better photographs!

You are amazingly talented!! I tried the the life of me but can't come up with anything decent haha!