Welcome! I felt exactly how you felt when my FI and I decided to have a DW, it is normal I promise! First thing we did was research a bunch of locations (Mexico, Domincan, Jamaica ect). We were able to eliminate some locations, such as mexico, right away (My family wasnt to fond of going there, and to get legally married it is quite a process). We then decided on jamaica. From there we researched pretty near every resort and narrowed it down to maybe 8 resorts we were considering. From there we went to a travel agent who was able to provide us with more information about the resorts and other things to think about (resort size, distance from airport, amount of things to do for guests, food ect). We then narrowed it down to maybe 4 resorts and once again went back to our travel agent. She was able to provide us with pricing for all the resorts and that helped us make our final decision on resort. From there I contacted the wedding coordinator by email to see what dates were available for the week we chose. We then chose our wedding date and time. After that things all fall into place! Good luck, and don't let it stress you out so much! I felt like once we booked our wedding date and time all the stress lessened!