Hi and welcome! The first thing we did was sit down and decided who we wanted to come ( we are only having immediate family, like parents, brothers, sisters, and a few close friends to keep it cost friendly). After we did that we made a budget and put it in order of what is important to us, for example, we wanted a decent photographer but could care less about a cake. From there we found a resort whose wedding packages fit into our budget (some offer free weddings, ect). Do you have any idea about where you want to get married?