We had a really hard time trying to decide on a resort. It took us a good few months to finally make our decision. We first made a list of what we wanted in a resort in regards to size, night life, things to do at the resort, restraunts and distance from airport. We also knew we wanted to get married in a gazebo overlooking the ocean. We then went to the travel agent with a list of the things we wanted and she gave us a list of 5 or 6 resorts and we took that and went home and did alot of research. We then went back to her when we narrowed it down to about three resorts and she was able to provide us with prices which helped us make your decision. I think once you find the right resort you will know. Good luck with it! We found that the most stressful part, and once we chose it was like a weight lifted off our shoulders!