HI! We are planning a legal ceremony in Mexico at El Dorado Royal Resort & Spa in November. The legal requirements in Mexico are posted on their vendor web site ~ Lomastravel.com under weddings. We to are both divorced. And, I have my "old" married name on my passport. The information we read and confirmed is that "yes" you must wait one year after the divorce is final. Then you must have your divorce decree and birth certificate Apositille sealed by the State Department. Basically, that means translated into Spanish ~then take the paperwork to the resort with you. I have sent the paperwork off to have this done. It's been 4 weeks and I am still waiting. But the State Department web site said ~ once received, in Washington DC, it could take two weeks to process. So, I am not freaking out yet Next, you must arrive at the resort 3 business days prior to ceremony. We are arriving on a monday and getting married on friday. Plus, you need 4 witnesses who also need to arrive 3 days prior to as well. I am really set on having our legal cermony in Mexico. But we do have a back up plan to do a secret legal state side ceremony either before or after. It seems like an over whelming process, but I'm trying really hard not to let it get to me....