The just gave us a DVD of it. It is expensive, which was our hesitation. In the end I asked a few of my married friends and the ones who got the video were glad they did and the ones who didn't wished they did, so that's what decided it for me. The ceremony flies by and then all you have is the video to look back at. I watched it as soon as we got home. My dad picks my son up from school, and I came home one day to find my dad watching the video and crying...lol