Good evening ladies.... My partner and I are dealing with the same issues, but are dealing with a woman named Kai Lara. She told us the same thing to wait until 2 months out and then she will start to plan stuff for our wedding. I don't get it? How do you pick out a dinner menu only 2 months prior? That seems ridiculous to me! We have had the same lack of communication, no sense of urgency and our travel agent isn't any help whatsoever. Part of me is glad to hear other people are having issues just because I was getting paranoid because we are a same sex couple, but it looks like they don't care about all brides equally!