DEEP BREATH GIRL!!! Your going to be alright. IThat might be me in a few months lol. I personally love the J. Alba pic. I mean both are beautiful no matter which way you choose, my only concern is that hump thats in the Carrie pic. How will that go with your veil etc, and stay during the day. Don't let the stress get to you. Just focus on one task a day. Everyone freaks out, but in the end it'll be PERFECT . Hair colored, mani, pedi, waxing, facial etc is easy and can be done the day before you leave. Just spend the day on that stuff and make sure you pack as much as you can beforehand. As far as the weight, don't be blinded by numbers. It's how you feel lady. I'm sure whether you lose 10 or 20, your Fiance will still be in awe when you walk down the aisle. Be confident, everything will be ok!