Hi! I'll try to answer some of your questions as I'm currently planning a wedding at the Elegance for August 2013. There is a free dinner included in the package, but it's semi private. Meaning, they will close off an area of one of the restaurants for your guests, but there can be no dancing, music, etc. It's included for up to 60 people and anyone over 60 people will be charged at $10 per person. (Starting at guest number 61). There is a set menu which I have a link for also. If you'd like a private dinner you pay $55+16% per person. I have a few links sent by the Wedding Coordinator that have alot of info on the dinner/reception choices. Let me know if you'd like me to email them to you.