Shanas, I think you have found the right place to answer all of your questions! There are some very talented and creative brides on this website, and if you look in the review sections you can see many recent pics and planning threads on how to have a 'do it yourself' wedding! I can help with a few of your questions, but I'm just at the beginning of planning my wedding at the Iberostar Rose Hall Beach Resort! 1) I just signed a contract with the beach resort that says maximum 120 guests 2)Unless you want an open bar, it's only 18 per person over 8 guests 3)check out this thread, and the wedding planning thread and look for a girl named Breeze616, she's posted some amazing things about how to plan and pack and posted quite a few pictures! I found it really helpful in choosing the beach resort 4) the cocktail hour is $7 for domestic and $10 for imported per person, per hour! and then you can have cocktails as well! I'm not sure if we are going to do this, since it's an all inclusive resort and you pay for the drinks anyway! 5)I'm not sure what other extra costs will be...I'm sure I'm missing something!